As anyone who has been in a long relationship or marriage for some time knows, the biggest challenge for couples is that of making their sex life exciting. Early in marriage, you’re accustomed to passionate lovemaking but that initial energy eventually will fade, it soon becomes harder to muster the same excitement again.
Which is one of the reasons why ‘500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets’ by famous author Michael Webb is such an important book for rejuvenating your sex life. It’s a book that offers over 500+ tips on topics like bedroom toys, adult films, sex positions, lubrication, oral sex and many very specific pointers on having great sex.
The book begins with a general foundation and understanding on lovemaking and includes 16 fully illustrated lovemaking positions in the back of the book. These are all very readable and interesting, but the main value of the book lies in the 500+ tips.
And the tips are fantastic! It’s very, very useful that you can simply open the book on a random page and pick out 5 to 10 tips you can implement and use immediately. Yes, immediately. That’s how practical the tips are when it comes to having better sex.
The content in this guide book is designed and formatted very nicely and its very easy to read. A bonus when you’re just about to have sex and need some quick tips while your other half is in the shower or coming home from work, picking up the kids etc.
So, what do the tips actually talk about?
They cover topics like oral sex tips for men and women, sex games, ways to surprise your partner, ways to last longer in bed and even tips on where you can make love other than your bedroom. There are 539 little sex tips in total and while I didn’t find all of them to be exciting, there were more than enough which I found very useful for having better sex.
The tips are all mixed together, which may make remembering them a little difficult. I recommend writing down specific tips on a piece of paper if you want to remind yourself of them and reading the book a few times instead of digesting it in one sitting.
In conclusion, while not all the tips in the book were new to me and it would have been nice to see more content, it’s still THE most comprehensive manual on improving your sex life I’ve ever read.
While it isn’t free, I find that nothing else comes close to it in the field of quick sex tips. All in all, this was an enjoyable read and I think you found definitely find it useful if you want to make your lovemaking exciting again. Highly recommended.
The first and most important concept in V-land is that the vulva and the vagina are not one and the same. The vagina is an internal organ that connects a woman’s outer sex organs with the cervix and uterus via a stretchable passage that is typically four to five inches long. 
Cunnilingus, derived from the Latin cunnus (vulva) and lingere (to lick), literally means “licking vulva.” But oral sex is not just about licking—sucking, stroking, blowing air, humming, and nibbling are some ofthe many ways ofpleasuring the vulva orally. 
Touch is so important that infant who are not held or touched may suffer from what is called “failure to thrive,” a condition that can lead to their death. Aline P. Zoldbrod, in her wise and warm book Sex Smart, writes that “touch is the foundation upon which your ability to enjoy sexuality is built; it is vital to loving and to sexual expression.”
As animalistic as humans can be, we are also rational, thinking emotional beings, which is why we read books about improving our sex lives instead of just fornicating like dogs in heat. Your mind intensifies the experience of sex (but thinking too much can sometimes do the opposite). Anatomically,many areas of your brain are responsible for sexual arousal.
If you already know how to make yourself feel good through self-pleasuring, then theoretically sex with a partner could feel that good, too. Often what holds us back are concerns about what our partner would think if we were to offer suggestions and express our needs and desires (whether sexual, emotional, or physical).
Hello! My name is Daniel Oakley and I'm from Phoenix, Arizona, USA. I've been married for 7 years to Anna, the love of my life. I've always been very comfortable with my sexuality and love experimenting in bed (and out of it). I set up this website in order to share tips that will help couples get a better sex life.